by shatakshi

In her bestselling book ‘When Your Lover Is A Liar: Healing The Wounds Of Deception And Betrayal’, author Susan Forward says, “Love is a verb, not a noun. It is active. Love is not just feelings of passion and romance. It is behaviour.”

Your Special One might love listening to you say “I love you”, but he would love it more if he saw it in your actions.

Here are a few simple ways to show the person in your life how much you love him and how special he is to you, without saying it.


Cook his favourite meal for him, without waiting for an occasion to do so. Surprise him at dinner when he gets home, or pack his favourite meal in his lunch box. Don’t forget to leave a note with a small doodle or a private joke on it.


Help him out by doing some of his chores one day, when he’s busy or tired. You could also do it when you simply want to let him have some rest or leisure time.


Drive him to work sometimes or to a doctor’s appointment, whether or not it is on your way. If he feels like you shouldn’t have gone to trouble over it, then simply tell him that it gives you that much more time to him.

So, then simply tell him that it gives you that much more time to him.


Offer him a big bite of your dessert or the last slice of your pizza, just so he knows that you would do for him what you wouldn’t do for anybody else in the world.


Flaunt him in front of your friends and loved ones, and brag about the qualities in him that you love so much. Make sure he feels comfortable around them.


Meet and get to know his family, friends and people who matter to him. Hang out and have fun with them.

Ways to Join

Join him in doing something he likes—whether it’s watching sports, playing video games or simply lazing around and stuffing his face. Be a part of it and end up having a relaxed conversation with him after.

One of the way; Kiss him out of the blue.

And if he looks surprised, give something you really like or appreciate about him as a reason for doing so. Then again, sometimes you say it best when you say nothing at all… and just kiss instead.


Initiate the tumble in the sheets, get on top of him and drive him crazy. You could surprise him at the office, or catch him off-guard at home just to let him know how hard it is for you to resist him.


Also published on Medium.

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