by Saloni Maheshwari

In this entire world, whom do you think will never walk out on you? Who will be that someone that will always be there for you regardless of anything that happens in your life? Will always be there for you holding your back? Will always be there for you keeping you solid to face everything that comes your way? You without any doubt must be having a name that has flown up in your mind as soon as you read the first line but after all these questions, is that name still there? I don’t think so. That one person who will be your support system throughout this beautiful voyage of life is YOU and no one else. 

Everyone needs a friend or a partner to confide in but what if you don’t have someone to confide in? Whom will you seek help from, then? You are not going to be sitting tight for that one individual to come and rescue you, rather, you will be that individual for yourself. Remember that people are not your medicine. You are your own medicine. You are your own cure. Quit looking for it in another person. You will recuperate without anyone else. You are the best pain killer for yourself. You are a whole. You are not a fraction. You are a masterpiece all by yourself.

If you can love yourself then only you will be able to give out love to this much needed world. Always remember the following mentioned points:

You matter

If someone isn’t treating you how you are supposed to be treated, don’t make yourself believe that you don’t matter in this huge universe. You might not matter for someone else but you will always matter for yourself.

Respect yourself                                                                                                                                                                   

If you don’t, others won’t either. Remember the world sees what you put out there, so hold yourself high because self-respect knows no considerations.

 Be confident                                                                                                                                                                             If you are confident enough no one will ever be able to dim your light. We waste too many days in comparing our self with others and think low of us. We will succeed only when we accept what and who we really are and be proud of it.

Treat yourself with love                                                                                                                                                     

 ‘Treat yourself with love and respect, and you will attract people who will show you love and respect.’ ~ Rhonda Byrne. Never demean yourself. Be humble and kind to the beautiful soul you are.

Smile somewhat more                                                                                                                                                           

In this beautiful world you can always find a reason to smile. So find yourself a reason to smile and make the most of it. 


The philosophy of the wisest man that ever existed, is mainly derived from the act of introspection.’ ~William Godwin. Look into yourself and try to understand yourself better and find your flaws and life will be a little better every day.

Love your own company                                                                                                                                                     

Solitude is not a curse, it is a cure in disguise. Embrace your own company. Be happy even when no one surrounds you and enjoy every bit of it.

Don’t give anyone a chance to cut you down.                                                                                                            

You are born beautiful. Let nothing persuade you that you are any less.

 Believe in yourself                                                                                                                                                                

A commonly used phrase says “Believe in yourself and you will be unstoppable”. Just have faith in yourself and you can achieve everything that you once thought you couldn’t.                                                                          

It is hard to do this. And for most of the people, confusing too but don’t think twice before putting yourself first. No matter what happens in life, your well-being, health and happiness comes first and everything later. 

Cherish yourself fiercely and valiantly if you want a fair shot at happiness. The greatest tragedy in life is believing in all the things that break you and not loving yourself enough to make you believe that you are more.

“A healthy self-love means we have no compulsion to justify to ourselves or others why we take vacations, why we sleep late, why we buy new shoes, why we spoil ourselves from time to time. We feel comfortable doing things which add quality and beauty to life.”
– Andrew Mathew

Self love over every love

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Hrishikesh August 23, 2017 - 8:26 pm

So Inspiring and Relevant suggestion to people who are actually fed up of their life and wanna step out of the darkness. Truly saying these words can save many lifes and so astonished that one from my circle can have such good writing style. Hats Off to you & I appreciate you Saloni????????

saloni August 24, 2017 - 5:28 am

Thank you so much , Hrishikesh. The main purpose of writing this article was to help a bit to the people who are not doing good with all the problems coming in their life.

Harshit August 23, 2017 - 8:27 pm

One of the best article on self help

saloni August 24, 2017 - 5:29 am

Thank you so much , Harshit.

Ritu August 24, 2017 - 5:59 am

Well written. ????

Saloni Maheshwari August 24, 2017 - 6:01 am

Thank you!

Serena August 24, 2017 - 6:27 am

Proud of you, only when you apply it. Keep it up ????

Saloni Maheshwari August 25, 2017 - 5:33 am

Yes. I will surely apply all of it.And thank you so much. <3

Sonal August 24, 2017 - 9:15 am

It’s just sad that most people don’t understand this…this is a really good article. I hope it helps propel realise it.

Saloni Maheshwari August 25, 2017 - 5:34 am

Thank you , Sonal !

Apoorva August 24, 2017 - 12:58 pm

Thoughts beautifully written into words.

Saloni Maheshwari August 25, 2017 - 5:34 am

Thank you , Apoorva !

Surbhi Agrawal August 24, 2017 - 3:29 pm

You’ve thrown light on each and every aspect that has to be taken care of.✨Very well written❤#You can make or break your destiny, the choice is yours ✨????Kudos, girl????????

Saloni Maheshwari August 25, 2017 - 5:35 am

Thank you so much , Surbhi! Means a lot. ✨

Shaifali August 25, 2017 - 3:57 pm

Amazing write-up girl
feelings beautifully expressed
Brilliant ????

Saloni Maheshwari August 28, 2017 - 3:09 pm

Thankyou so much , Shaifali. 🙂


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