Are You Scared Of Being Alone?

by Vipul Ozone

Being Alone Is Boring

How many times do you find yourself in a situation where you just don’t know what to do? There are times when you’re wishing you’d be some place rather than being all by yourself? We all feel that way from time to time. There’s nothing wrong with this feeling until it starts paying visits way more frequently than it should. It’s not a very healthy thing to be bored every time you are sitting alone. It’s actually good to give yourself some alone time. Now every time you find yourself empty when you’re alone, you’re not enjoying your own company. There’s a halt to your productivity

What Is Bothering You?

This is the prime question you need to answer. If you find the answer to this question, you’ll probably crack the code as well! What you need to do is to fix the root cause. Why do you think it’s so important for you to constantly be around people? Why do you need someone to complete you? What makes you scared of being alone? It could be anything. For instance, a past experience of being deserted by someone. An unfortunate event taking away a close one from you or maybe something else. Something that has a deep impact. All of these incidents are more or less beyond your control. Once they occur, they leave a permanent sense of fear in your heart. You need to ask yourself the same question, what’s bothering you? Once you’ve figured that out, you’re ready to move on to the next step.

Your Surroundings Guide You

Your surroundings shape the way of your life. They define the person you are. Surroundings play a vital role in your development as a whole. You need to create the ambiance of independence to remind yourself that you are complete within yourself. Once you let yourself be in a vulnerable spot, loneliness starts creeping in! However, this doesn’t mean you can’t condition yourself to be independent. You have to prepare yourself for whatever the life has to offer and keep moving forward regardless. You don’t need to keep your problems to yourself and cry all alone to prove your worth.Just keep in mind that no matter how many people support you, in the end it is you who has to solve the problem.

Believe in yourself, believe that you are capable of dealing with your problems on your own. Remind yourself that you have the potential to lift yourself up. Self-belief can work in magical ways. So just keep that positive atmosphere and head straight ahead!

Do What Makes You Happy

We know a lot of people who hate their jobs. They are constantly whining about how their job is robbing them of their time and not paying enough! Majority of the mass is dis-satisfied with whatever they’re doing. I would love to tell you to quit your job and do what you love, but I won’t do that. You need the job that’s paying you, like it or not. It’s not the job that is the problem, it’s your lack of productivity in the time spent with yourself. You have to keep nurturing your skills and also develop new ones. You keep thinking of how unhappy you are with everything but fail to make the most of whatever you have. Follow your passion, maybe as a part-timer, who knows when you might be in luck. Play video-games, write poems, make sketches, do what you’ve always wanted to do.

Do not let your own company be boring to you. Once you start living your life productively, you’ll start enjoying your alone time and you’ll be exactly who you wanted to be!

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