You want me to do what? Fifty Shades of Gray is a fictional book, not a how-to manual for healthy relationships.
1.DEMAND YOU MAKE A MAJOR LIFE CHANGE
Making comments about the haircut they prefer on you or wishing you’d spend less on comic book memorabilia is one thing. However if your partner is asking you to change major things—your career, your religion, your studies, or other things you consider core parts of your personality—that’s a serious red flag, says Dr.Fran Walfish, PhD, Beverly Hills family and relationship psychotherapist, author of The Self-Aware Parent, and co-star of Sex Box on WE tv.